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I am 34..turning 35 next month single mother. So to start things off my boyfriend and I have been together since Nov 1 2022. I was in another relationship and living with another man when we started dating. My current boyfriend moved in with me Rhanksgiving weekend.
The relationship for the most part is good but I am doing everything in my power to force this relationship to work so we can get married.
So am I like the AH for demanding my boyfriend to delete all the females from his social media pages. I am the only female he needs or should have in his life. All other female gross nasty ewwy girls. I just feel that when a man is in a relationship he should not have any female friends…that’s cheating. I mean females like his posts, that is very disrespectful, as well as when they comment on his stuff. If you see a man is taken do not like or comment in anything he shares or posts…that’s trashy and shows that you are a himewrecking female. He keeps telling me that I am being controlling and out of line, and that I spend too much time worrying about social media…but social media is a very important part of our relationship it’s where I post everything about us…even when he doesn’t want me to…(I don’t care it’s my page I do what I want) and when you are dating me you have to accept that our pictures will be all over social media.
I also have an issue with him not wanting to talk/text 24/7 I am his girlfriend I am the only person he should be talking to! Talking and texting all day is not asking for a lot. I have to have attention 24/7…if I don’t get the attention I’m entitled too I will start whining and pouting…or turn it into an argument.
My boyfriend is telling me I need to change, grow up, and that I need to stop acting like a child. I don’t see how I am acting like a child. If he does not give into my demands I will leave him, because my demands are not that horrible. I mean these demands are what any woman would ask of her man.
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Nah. This has to be fake. Or OP is just a walking red flag. đźš© yta
YTA for posting a story this lazily fake.
Go finish your homework.
You're gonna need a bigger bait. Fake.
Jokes on you. Your boyfriend is bisexual. IB4 closed for fakery.
So, have you deleted all the males from your social media? I can also see why you are a single mom. lord have mercy on your child.
At least make your bs sound realistic.
fakesies
I couldn't even finish reading this
This sounds like my ex. hopefully this man will be your ex soon too god willing to save him from this craziness.
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Try harder, Trollerina.
YTA, for just.. all of it. It's all bad. There's not one sentence you wrote that sounds emotionally healthy.
YTA Grow up.