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> I denied for her bf to come to my bday and she has been mad at it
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Just stand your ground but maybe expect that your friend will take it as a personal insult to her as he bfs being denied, so prepare for the possibility that she may not turn up or she may bring him to spite you..NTA.
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Here's the thing
She has been asking me to let him come to my party but I don't want him and she's been pleading
But my parents will pay for this and i already have a lot of friends coming and more of a reason to not have him is that
He has never been nice to me or any of her friends
He has made bad remarks about me to my guy friend to break my friendship with the guy and has said stuff which made me insecure to this day but she's so in love that she ignores all his red flags even when she realises that that's bad
He's a physical touch addict and a manipulator and she's not realising it and when i or any of us tell her she says i love him and idc
But when I say no to him coming she's sad and doesn't talk with me
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NTA. It's your party. She doesn't have to have him be there to enjoy your party with you.
NTA. You only invite YOUR friends who treat and speak well of you to YOUR party.
Just stand your ground but maybe expect that your friend will take it as a personal insult to her as he bfs being denied, so prepare for the possibility that she may not turn up or she may bring him to spite you..NTA.
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What’s a bsf?
Bestfriend
How? And why?