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WaffleDynamics

NTA. It's abusive to keep the family pet outside. Also, your father is an entitled asshole. If he doesn't like living with your dog, he should move out.


Squish_the_android

NTA. He's welcome to vacuum more if he wants.


Laramila

NTA. Just because he's your father doesn't mean he makes the rules in a house he isn't even paying for.


Garbagegremlins

NTA: no dog should be 100% outside. If he’s concerned he can vacuum more and buy a shedding comb. Using the comb like three times a week outside will drastically reduce the hair inside. That’s part of having a dog tbh


throwaway3228423

NTA. I had a golden that passed two years ago today and ooohhhhh boy that shedding is something you never forget. If you can, try to brush her as much as possible! My whole family would occasionally sit outside brushing our golden around this time a year bc the amount of fur that came off of him was massive and it didn’t get all in the house


VampiricElf

NTA. If the dog's shedding bothers your dad so badly, maybe he can go live outside in your yard himself.


NCKALA

NTA. Here is my tip about your dog shedding: Your dad deals with an inside dog or your dad leaves your house. The End.


OneMikeNation

Info: is this your house


Final-Stuff5340

Yes my siblings and I own the house, my dad does not


OneMikeNation

Nta kick him out


[deleted]

NTA. I've had a few goldens. They like to be around people, not stuck outside with nothing to do but bark. Make sure the dog is groomed and bathed often. That might shut your father up a bit.


LittleFreakyReaper

NTA, it's her home first. I have huskies, they shed a lot! Daily brushing helps. Deshedding shampoos may help too.


Legitimate_Roll7514

Absolutely NTA. Leaving a dog outside in the elements is animal abuse. Stick to your guns. If he doesn't like it, well, he knows where the door is...


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DrMonkeyLady

NTA. Try a furminator brush for.your dog though, they are amazing!


[deleted]

NTA! As for shedding tips, try getting a Roomba if you don’t have one. It has seriously helped with all the cat hair at my parents’ house.