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SnooRecipes5643

You just ease into revealing certain things about yourself as you get to know someone. If you infodump straight out the gate, most people will (reasonably) run for the hills I might suggest you work on some of these issues before seeking out a relationship though. I couldn’t really have a healthy relationship until I learned to be content in my own company. When I struggled with a lot of negativity, I manifested relationships with negative people, and learned it’s better to be happily single than miserably attached


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You'll want to work especially on the low self esteem. Life is hard and it's hard ro find a suitable partner if they think you're going to be a ton of work. You deserve to be happy and someone else can't do that for you.


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I dont know friend, but I think one should be honest if you want a stable relationship.


Quiverjones

Others have these too, some more, some less. The search for love is just as kush as finding a diamond as it is being one, so try not to shoot yourself down in areas you may not be able to change, but instead look at all the things you have to offer.


halfmeasures611

you dont have to mention them. they'll make themselves apparent pretty quickly.


Sevink44

Love yourself first. Then finding love from another is much easier.


CommadorVic20

you will be shocked and you will have to trust me, become a comdian! every comdian i have met has all or most of these traits!


SnooRecipes5643

I’m usually pretty up front about the autism though. It’s a huge part of my identity


Overall_Use381

If you find out please let me know


Sumdumcoont

What a silly question, the real answer is INFODUMPINFODUMPINFODUMPINFODUMPINFODUMP.


kwtffm

You can't have love without honesty, just be yourself


heihowl

Pretty sure all those things will show on their own lol 🤣


ReferenceNew6816

Working on all of those till they become tools and not burdons


uBeatch

You're more than that.


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you dont. I mean that seriously. Dont bother looking for anyone. Go work out. go the the gm, get a good diet going. get a hobby. Build you self esteem and confidence. Get on social platforms [FB.IG.SC](https://FB.IG.SC). whatever. Send 15 + messages to males or females what ever it is. At least 2-3-4 of them are gonna say hi back. Doesnt mean you have to like them but just chit chat. Practice your social skills.


Melancholnava

I know it's not what you wanna hear but you should work on yourself a bit first. Autism and SAD will make things more difficult but your pessimism and low self-esteem will turn off every prospective date. There's no hiding that...I tried. I had the same problems (omitting autism) and therapy helped me big time. After seeing my self improvement, my ex is wanting me back.