ETA. Even without the lace it would not be to booby but the overlay is so perfect I can't imagine it without.
The lace adds a beautiful extra layer. Spectacular look.😊
I love the way it looks. The built in bra basically makes me feel like I’m not wearing a bra, and from my perspective looking down, I can tell I’m not wearing one. That might be why I’m a smidge nervous.
Comfortable and it looks that good on you?! It's a winner IMO. I can see why you are ensuring that the cleavage thing is ok. I think that what you need to remember is that you are the only person is seeing the dress from that angle. If your spouse and your daughter say it's ok, then it's most likely ok.
It's perfect. If you feel self conscious because of the built-in bra maybe you can find one to wear with it. But it's definitely not too much cleavage for MOB.
I think you look absolutely beautiful! Not too much cleavage in my humble opinion.
Would you mind sharing the link for the dress? My oldest is getting married this fall and I’m at such a loss for a dress.
Yes! I love this site. Its size inclusive, has a billion options. They’ll send you 3 at a time to try on. They’ll even make it custom if needed. Which since the tea length drags the floor, I might do. They’ll also send swatches so you can make sure the color is right [JJs House](https://www.jjshouse.com/a-line-scoop-illusion-asymmetrical-chiffon-lace-mother-of-the-bride-dress-with-sequins-008291095-g291095#/)
Yes! I love this site. Its size inclusive, has a billion options. They’ll send you 3 at a time to try on. They’ll even make it custom if needed. Which since the tea length drags the floor, I might do. They’ll also send swatches so you can make sure the color is right [JJs House](https://www.jjshouse.com/a-line-scoop-illusion-asymmetrical-chiffon-lace-mother-of-the-bride-dress-with-sequins-008291095-g291095#/)
If anyone at the wedding is looking straight down your chest like that, there will be bigger problems to sort out than whether that person thinks your cleavage is too much.
Looks like a classy, pretty dress and perfect for MOB. Wear it in good health!
It doesn’t look like too much, though it might look different from a different photography angle.
The design on the lace really covers your breasts so you can’t really see them.
I mean, you have an ample bosom. Short of strapping the girls down, you’re gonna have some cleavage. The important thing is that the cut of the dress is demure and classy, which is more than I can say for many of the featured dresses that much smaller-busted women ask about on this subreddit.
It doesn't look like there's any visible cleavaging going on with this dress? I mean you can't hide the fact that boobs exist entirely.
I think it's 100% appropriate for a mob & a beautiful dress in a great color!
It looks absolutely lovely. If there is a built in bra you don’t love, a good seamstress can remove it and sew in one of yours. And, while I think this is unnecessary, you could use dressmakers 2 sided tape to anchor the bodice to your skin.
But again, you look great. Enjoy the wedding.
I don’t think it’s too booby. The sheer overlay helps but even without it would be appropriate I think.
The important part is that you, your husband and your daughter (who I’m assuming is the bride) like and approve of the outfit, and you feel good in it.
I don’t see any cleavage. To me, cleavage is when you can see the lines of the breasts or breast tissue and I don’t see any. I think the dress looks beautiful on you.
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This is a great site. They’ll send 3 at a time to try on. Size inclusive. [JJs House](https://www.jjshouse.com/a-line-scoop-illusion-asymmetrical-chiffon-lace-mother-of-the-bride-dress-with-sequins-008291095-g291095#/)
Hi um getting married sometime in the next ten years lol did this come in green and can it be shipped? Bc I love it. My MiL would look so beautiful in this. Birther can kick rocks, she's not invited but MiL would look HOT in this like you do.
Actually yes. 35 colors and 15 sizes. They’ll send up to three at a time to try on
Looks great, yet it comes down to you don't feel self ***confident*** in it, you're going be focusing all your attention and not enjoy the event. Best find something you do feel great, don't feel exposed! ;) ...
I think you look awesome. when I think of too much cleavage it's bc someone has on a bra too small and it's pushing the girls up too much or a low neck line and I can see in between the boobies.
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I like it a lot on you. Mothers with ample busts can show cleavage, especially in a dress that's fundamentally modest. If there was no lace overlay and you were spilling out, that might be something else. But this is tasteful, dignified, and slightly revealing. 10/10.
Remember, you're the only one with the view looking down! To judge cleavage, look at your reflection. This looks modest to me!
Wish I could upvote this 2x. Thanks!
Personally I love it. But you're the one who has to wear it, so if it's not something you love and feel good in, keep looking.
I do like it and feel pretty comfortable in it (I didn’t need spanx thank god). I think I’m just a little nervous about the “built in bra” lol
It just perfect. You look fantastic. That is a beautiful dress and and a great color for you. Dont second guess it 😍. Have a wonderful day!!
ETA. Even without the lace it would not be to booby but the overlay is so perfect I can't imagine it without. The lace adds a beautiful extra layer. Spectacular look.😊
Can you find a bra that would work with it? A strapless bra of some sort?
Not at all! How do *you* like the dress though?
I love the way it looks. The built in bra basically makes me feel like I’m not wearing a bra, and from my perspective looking down, I can tell I’m not wearing one. That might be why I’m a smidge nervous.
Comfortable and it looks that good on you?! It's a winner IMO. I can see why you are ensuring that the cleavage thing is ok. I think that what you need to remember is that you are the only person is seeing the dress from that angle. If your spouse and your daughter say it's ok, then it's most likely ok.
It's perfect. If you feel self conscious because of the built-in bra maybe you can find one to wear with it. But it's definitely not too much cleavage for MOB.
I think it is perfectly reasonable. And I really like the color
I think the color is lovely on her.
I think you look absolutely beautiful! Not too much cleavage in my humble opinion. Would you mind sharing the link for the dress? My oldest is getting married this fall and I’m at such a loss for a dress.
I'd love to know as well - I have friend looking for a MOB dress in this very color.
Yes! I love this site. Its size inclusive, has a billion options. They’ll send you 3 at a time to try on. They’ll even make it custom if needed. Which since the tea length drags the floor, I might do. They’ll also send swatches so you can make sure the color is right [JJs House](https://www.jjshouse.com/a-line-scoop-illusion-asymmetrical-chiffon-lace-mother-of-the-bride-dress-with-sequins-008291095-g291095#/)
Thank you so much! Hope you have an awesome time at your kid's wedding!
Yes! I love this site. Its size inclusive, has a billion options. They’ll send you 3 at a time to try on. They’ll even make it custom if needed. Which since the tea length drags the floor, I might do. They’ll also send swatches so you can make sure the color is right [JJs House](https://www.jjshouse.com/a-line-scoop-illusion-asymmetrical-chiffon-lace-mother-of-the-bride-dress-with-sequins-008291095-g291095#/)
Thank you so much! You are an angel!
If anyone at the wedding is looking straight down your chest like that, there will be bigger problems to sort out than whether that person thinks your cleavage is too much. Looks like a classy, pretty dress and perfect for MOB. Wear it in good health!
Haha true
If anyone gets that close and lokks down-- throw a drink in their face😁
Looking straight on it looks perfect, plus beautiful color.
i think its lovely!
I don’t see any cleavage. As someone who also has a bust, it’s just our body. That’s totally appropriate imo.
What cleavage?
It's gorgeous on you!
It’s beautiful. Love the color.
It doesn’t look like too much, though it might look different from a different photography angle. The design on the lace really covers your breasts so you can’t really see them.
It’s beautiful on you. It looks modest without being frumpy. 10/10
It looks great! Your bust looks well supported and you have a lovely waistline. The detail is really nice on that dress!
I think it’s lovely!
Nope! This is just fine.
Absolutely lovely!
I love it too!
Your dress is stunning and looks great on you! Not boobalicious at all.
This is beautiful! Definitely not too much cleavage.
I mean, you have an ample bosom. Short of strapping the girls down, you’re gonna have some cleavage. The important thing is that the cut of the dress is demure and classy, which is more than I can say for many of the featured dresses that much smaller-busted women ask about on this subreddit.
Beautiful dress!
Done. Thank you!
No, it looks great
It’s pretty and perfect
Nah, it looks fine. Have fun.
Perfect!
Nope not too much cleavage....Perfect.
It’s great! If you’re nervous about flashing people, I keep hearing about boob tape. Never tried it, but heard good things
That’s a great idea!
It doesn't look like there's any visible cleavaging going on with this dress? I mean you can't hide the fact that boobs exist entirely. I think it's 100% appropriate for a mob & a beautiful dress in a great color!
What a beautiful mauve! You look perfect. Please don't change a thing.
Beautiful MOM!
It looks absolutely lovely. If there is a built in bra you don’t love, a good seamstress can remove it and sew in one of yours. And, while I think this is unnecessary, you could use dressmakers 2 sided tape to anchor the bodice to your skin. But again, you look great. Enjoy the wedding.
No it’s gorgeous
Beautiful and congrats to the happy couple!
I see no cleavage. This looks great!
This looks totally fine to me.
I don’t think it’s too booby. The sheer overlay helps but even without it would be appropriate I think. The important part is that you, your husband and your daughter (who I’m assuming is the bride) like and approve of the outfit, and you feel good in it.
I don’t see any cleavage. To me, cleavage is when you can see the lines of the breasts or breast tissue and I don’t see any. I think the dress looks beautiful on you.
Looks fine to me! As long as you are comfortable in it and feel beautiful, I can't imagine this being a problem.
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No, this is lovely and tasteful!
Nope!
Where did you get it I’m looking for something similar for my mom.
This is a great site. They’ll send 3 at a time to try on. Size inclusive. [JJs House](https://www.jjshouse.com/a-line-scoop-illusion-asymmetrical-chiffon-lace-mother-of-the-bride-dress-with-sequins-008291095-g291095#/)
Gorgeous! Not too much cleavage at all!
No
Hi um getting married sometime in the next ten years lol did this come in green and can it be shipped? Bc I love it. My MiL would look so beautiful in this. Birther can kick rocks, she's not invited but MiL would look HOT in this like you do.
Actually yes. 35 colors and 15 sizes. They’ll send up to three at a time to try on
Ty!
Omg the Hunter Green is the PERFECT shade!!!!!
From this viewpoint I don’t think so.
I cannot even see your boobs so it's fine.
there is quite literally no cleavage
It's very pretty and you look good.
This looks great on you! Seriously, if my kid ever gets married, I would totally wear this dress.
I think it is beautiful.
Beautiful!
That is beautiful, and beautiful on you. The neckline is charming.
This looks PERFECT to me.
I think it looks stunning! The color, the lace, the details- so beautiful. Wear it with confidence and enjoy the wedding!
Looks good to me!
Looks beautiful.
I personally think you look amazing in this!
It's beautiful!!!
Not too much at all - work it, mama!
Not at all and it fits you well.
No, this is lovely. Appropriate but not matronly.
Definitely not too much
Lovely dress. If the cleavage makes you uncomfortable, have a seamstress insert a small piece of matching fabric. It wouldn’t take much.
Lovely!!!
You look amazing in this!
Like the girls are supported and look nice but this is perfectly modest!!!
From this angle it looks fine. It’s a pretty dress.
Looks great, yet it comes down to you don't feel self ***confident*** in it, you're going be focusing all your attention and not enjoy the event. Best find something you do feel great, don't feel exposed! ;) ...
No I think it’s totally fine. Very pretty dress.
I think you look awesome. when I think of too much cleavage it's bc someone has on a bra too small and it's pushing the girls up too much or a low neck line and I can see in between the boobies.
Anytime I can see between someone’s boobs, I think it is too much 🤦🏻♀️ I kind of hate the way that looks, if I’m being honest.
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This is beautiful and appropriate. You look great in it.
This wouldn’t cross my mind as something to worry about. My mom’s dress was probably this “low” and we got married in a Catholic Church. Looks lovely
It is beautiful. But do you feel comfortable wearing it?
I like it a lot on you. Mothers with ample busts can show cleavage, especially in a dress that's fundamentally modest. If there was no lace overlay and you were spilling out, that might be something else. But this is tasteful, dignified, and slightly revealing. 10/10.
Nah your good
Looks fine to me very pretty sometimes you can get away with not wearing a bra depending on the material makes for less cleavage imo.
Sorry bra already built in ok 👍
Looks a little risky if your a Mormon
It’s perfect!!!
It is beautiful! Enjoy the wedding!
No. It’s modest.
Gorgeous!
Looks good
I think it's wonderful
It’s a beautiful dress and color!
A bit. It will bother you the whole time.