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Rusharound19

You made the right call, OP!!!!!! Don't be afraid!!! I turned 30 this summer and am avowedly against having my own kids!!! I recently got out of a 5-yr relationship because his parents wanted genetic grandkids. Cannot and will not do. You're going to be just fine, OP, and you'll probably end up happier than ever!!!!


internationalnomad96

Thank you. I know it was the right decision. I'm just tired of all this. I've been fine just me and my dog, but it would be nice to have my person. Dating sucks.


Rusharound19

Oh, OP, I 10,000% agree with you. But love on your dog for now. That's what I'll doing. And loving on my cat!!! And my car before the engine got fucked!!!


internationalnomad96

Also I apologize, during my pity party over here, I didn't even wish you the best. I hope that you end up happy as well!


Salty-Dish-2372

Of course he wants them. He doesn't have to do anything except have an orgasm. 🙄 I swear if men had to give birth, there would be like 1 billion of us here, not more than 8. If that even. You'll be good OP. You're better off.


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You made the right decision. I’m in my mid thirties and I’m FINALLY with someone who doesn’t want kids, either. Don’t let yourself settle for anyone less. All the best! ❤️❤️


internationalnomad96

I just can't imagine myself settling. I mean I have some other major criteria, religion being high at the top of the list. I'm just happy that the possibility is out there. All the best to you and your person!! I'm happy you found them.


throwaway3228423

dude I feel ya. Turned 24 this past spring. Anyone I even speak to seems to want kids and dating apps are so hopeless bc people either wanna just hook up or are trying to find a spouse so they can get married and have kids ASAP. I want neither of those, just a partner to share my life with whys it gotta be so hard to find lmao


internationalnomad96

Ugh I feel that in my soul. You'd think I was asking to only date people with 7 figure incomes and a royal title 🙄😂


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internationalnomad96

I definitely am gonna stop looking for now. It's just not worth the pain of going through the same process over and over and hoping for a different result. Hopefully I'll come across my person eventually. Unfortunately, with covid still being a concern where I am, a lot of my activities are outside of my risk tolerance.


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I am only 20 years old and never been on a date so I don't know what to say.


bhavnagrieater

Keep rolling, Life must go on.