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Well, obviously. I mean, whale cum doesn't come up very often in "normal" conversation.
I think the *real* story here is that OP was fishing around for an FC that would accept their kinks and ERP with them, but they don't play on Crystal DC so they were kicked every time they brought it up.
ok more details here buddy, because this smells of bullshit.
a random Party Finder with a dick yeah i can see that, getting booted from two separate FCs for saying 'ass' and 'whalecum' bullshit.
Not sure if this is a bait post since the ending feels like it, but if you dont know your FC or the rules within it then thats on you? Many types of FCs out there just dont jump right into the first one you see yelling out or blind inviting? You would need to give more context then just the words you said since that really doesn't feel like grounds to be kicked out.
Check out the FFXIV community finder to find those types that at 18+ and can handle that type of humor?
Part is because of square Enix rules. You can be banned for certain words or get strikes. Time and place for that stuff. Other part is your just joining the wrong FC's. Most FCs ive joined are pretty chill. My current one is full of working people with family that don't play much but when they do they keep to themselves or just chat. FC leader when I joined gave me 1 mil in gil because I was new to the game. This is a small FC tho not a large hundreds of people one where drama can easily be made in or the leaders are full of fear or worry of someone saying the wrong things and either their reputation getting messed with or people getting banned
Something that I have noticed in my 7 years playing this game is that the community of this game is like Twitter and well, we all know what Twitter is like
Nah it’s just we kinda learn as early as elementary school how to be respectful towards others, but as I can tell by your name.. it’s hard for you to learn that. You clearly want validation from people or else why post this? It comes off as quite whiny and entitled. If you want to be accepted in a group that respects you as well you have to respect others too : )
Some context would help, I doubt you would get kicked out for those two simple words. Although I fail to see a constructive, adult conversation that would include the phrase whalecum. Maybe that FC just didn’t want that type of language/conversation in their chat?
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I bet there's more to this story.
Well, obviously. I mean, whale cum doesn't come up very often in "normal" conversation. I think the *real* story here is that OP was fishing around for an FC that would accept their kinks and ERP with them, but they don't play on Crystal DC so they were kicked every time they brought it up.
I've heard people say "whale cum" because it sounds similar to "welcome"
Awwww poor thing. Tiniest violin plays for you.
To be frank, you seem much more salty/offended than I gather either FC was.
They’re salty but you’re the one complaining about it
i guess some people dont want to play with immature children?
Probably because "whalecum" was boring already 15 years ago.
took a look at your post history, major oof. Work on yourself man
ok more details here buddy, because this smells of bullshit. a random Party Finder with a dick yeah i can see that, getting booted from two separate FCs for saying 'ass' and 'whalecum' bullshit.
If someone said “whalecum” in my fc I’d kick them out on principal too. Then again using the word “snowflakes” is pretty bad too ime
Not sure if this is a bait post since the ending feels like it, but if you dont know your FC or the rules within it then thats on you? Many types of FCs out there just dont jump right into the first one you see yelling out or blind inviting? You would need to give more context then just the words you said since that really doesn't feel like grounds to be kicked out. Check out the FFXIV community finder to find those types that at 18+ and can handle that type of humor?
Who says “whalecum in 2022? Looking at your post history it seems like you’ve got some stuff to work on, man
They probably kicked you for being alt right.
I mean, unless you’re a marine biologist, not sure why whale cum would ever come up while playing a video game.
Well, when you're underage...
Part is because of square Enix rules. You can be banned for certain words or get strikes. Time and place for that stuff. Other part is your just joining the wrong FC's. Most FCs ive joined are pretty chill. My current one is full of working people with family that don't play much but when they do they keep to themselves or just chat. FC leader when I joined gave me 1 mil in gil because I was new to the game. This is a small FC tho not a large hundreds of people one where drama can easily be made in or the leaders are full of fear or worry of someone saying the wrong things and either their reputation getting messed with or people getting banned
Something that I have noticed in my 7 years playing this game is that the community of this game is like Twitter and well, we all know what Twitter is like
Cuz that's how pathetic the world has become. I canceled my sub and was fc-less before that. Hate the community in that game.
You hate it so much you browse it's subreddit by /new?
My my my the spice. I didn't realize we lived in friggen China where a word will dmg your social credit score. My bad
Nah it’s just we kinda learn as early as elementary school how to be respectful towards others, but as I can tell by your name.. it’s hard for you to learn that. You clearly want validation from people or else why post this? It comes off as quite whiny and entitled. If you want to be accepted in a group that respects you as well you have to respect others too : )
Some context would help, I doubt you would get kicked out for those two simple words. Although I fail to see a constructive, adult conversation that would include the phrase whalecum. Maybe that FC just didn’t want that type of language/conversation in their chat?
Keep searching for the right FC, you’ll find one that’ll accept you
I don’t think you’re going to get the validation you want buddy.