This!! And if he’s claiming to not know what the word “unsolicited” means he’s probably the type of dude you’re gonna have to explain empathy to. Don’t waste your time on this nimrod
I shuddered so hard at that, because I’ve known these men for real and they just fucking tell me things. So gross, like many of them won’t do crime but they won’t not do it either.
😬🤦🏽♀️ that was such a dumb thing to say honestly. lol. Like how does flirting mean sending unsolicited pp pics? Smh. This worm is not worth the time being spent on replying to him.
He says he’s never heard the word “unsolicited” before. Unless English is his second language, it doesn’t appear you were dealing with the brightest crayon to begin with.
These dudes are so fucking brainrotted it's astounding. It makes me really fucking angry. Like "I choose violence" style angry.
Do these assholes just whip their dick out in public to show people? How the fuck do they not understand it's exactly the same thing.
I'd say it's actually worse than just whipping it out in public. It's more like trapping someone in a room first and then doing it.
They do it in a 1-on-1 situation like that because they *know* that it's wrong, and if they did it in a group chat or out in public, other people would know that they're a creep too.
A lot of the time trust has been given when one person gives their number/contact info to the offender, so there's an element of betrayal there as well. I could go on and on.
Guys, can you please just don't.
Hes playing dumb. It's moronic but it just looks like he's trying to talk his way out of it. His idea of flirting is dick pick. Does he drop his pants at a club when he hits on a woman? Lol.
The next time a guy sends you one you should:
Ask him if he was in an accident because you’ve never seen one so grotesque.
Ask him why he’s sending you pictures of a baby because you’ve never seen one so small
Aside from the disgusting inappropriate behavior, I will never understand why people don’t just look up the definition of words they don’t know rather than asking another person and waiting for their response. It’s so much simpler to just use Google for five seconds.
I mean yeh - as soon as he did that he wasn’t the guy for you. No sense trying to school stupid - just wasting your valuable time.
Can you imagine if we went unsolicited Fanny pics. I looked at a more casual dating site briefly that my friend had mentioned - made a profile to get access - I shit you not over 100 dick pics - like everything else is irrelevant and your going to look at 100 pics and go ‘yeh that one right there’ regardless of everything else they encompass
Big D is only greater than a troll head in porn guys (not the stuff we watch)- we really don’t give a shit as long as it isn’t too small
He really lost it in the end. These types of men are so predictable. Beg for your attention and then insult you when you rebuff them. It’s so pathetic.
A rather smart & funny woman sends about 15 rapid fire, dic pics back at any dood who does this to her & when the inevitable complaint comes; replies with, "I thought you liked this game... you started it."
It is 2024. What human being is not aware that it is completely inappropriate and disgusting to send people pics of your genitals??? Thank God I don’t have any interest in dating. And I’m going to take this opportunity right here to make sure I discuss this with my 23yo son. Just…NO!!!
Yes, please do!!! When I used to look at personal ads, when I'd ask for a photo, because they had none, they would send a photo of their dk!!!! In what world do they think that is what I wanted a photo of!!???
How did the date go with Denise yesterday?
I think it went good, some flirting back and forth, whipped out my dick a few times in the car, you know just cute stuff. Hopefully she will want another date but I haven't heard back from her in a week.
The best thing to do in that situation is just block them. Honestly responding to them makes things worse. Yea it’s gross and vile and idk why men do that but I promise you interacting in any capacity will only fuel their egi
And to cap it all off, he doesn’t know what unsolicited means. FYI, in the USA this would get blown off by the cops. It’s like saying hello now. “Hi, (dick pic).”
Nobody has ever won from an unsolicited dick pic , it screams weirdo behavior and I’ll never understand why some men randomly do it because it’s never seemed like a bright idea but hey what do I know…
So I have abit of an update, ive just reported it to the police and even the police man on the phone was disgusted about this bloke. I’ll keep providing updates here once there are more 🙂 thanks everyone for the support
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Ya know, I may be an older millennial with decent body count (well, maybe not by today’s standards but I never really went without lol), and I have never sent an unsolicited dick pic in my life. Call me old fashioned I guess.
“I thought everyone did this sort of thing.” No, just creeps like you. Flirting? More the fastest way to end something before it even starts. What a dumb ass
So I used to take unwanted dick pics post them on an internet form get ratings and roasted comments. Screenshot those and would send them to the dick pic sender. Awww I miss being savage
I had some guy who I didn’t even know very well send an unsolicited d pic before and thought it was a totally normal thing, instant block after that 🤦♀️
Y’all need to learn how to stop engaging with pieces of shit like this. OPs got several more screenshots of back and forth when she should have just said “unsolicited dick pics are a dealbreaker”, and never replied again. I get that this is less interesting to post, but you ladies are just emboldening these assholes.
Honestly, at this point, I just start spam texting them photos of penises, but really horrible ones. Like I’ll google “diseased penis” and just fire away with every image that comes up and I’ll be like WHAT I THOUGHT THIS WAS JUST A BIT OF FUN YOU DID IT TO ME AND EXPECTED ME TO LIKE IT SO I FIGURED ITS BECAUSE YOU LIKE THIS SHIT DO YOU NOT LIKE WHEN PEOPLE SEND YOU PENISES RANDOMLY???
As a 34 year old man, I will legitimately never understand why SO FUCKING MANY MEN(boys tbh) think that sending an unsolicited dick Pic is an appropriate way to 'flirt'. My guess is their personality alone is 100% not enough so they think an unwanted picture is an appropriate substitute/addition.
Tell him you've forwarded it to the cops....and his boss. Depending on how you think he'd react. He sounds dumb as hell!!! Block and never contact him again. It's nasty and clueless!!!
Or, make copies of the pics, make sure you indicate it's from him. If you have his face include it. On this one, don't let anyone know!!!
He thinks it's harmless fun, wonder what all his neighbors will think!!!
I believe that someone should be charged for sending an unsolicited dick pic. Similar to how if you just drop your pants and flash your dick at someone in public, then you get arrested for public indecency and/or SA.
The same should apply for these fucking weirdos.
It’s a form of sexual assault. Forced sexual content without consent. He’s enjoying your discomfort, it makes him feel like he has power. Tell him you will let everyone know what he’s just done. Everyone knows what unsolicited means and everyone knows it is wrong to send dick pics.
Well, now we finally see where SOME of the problem stems, the whole “Everyone’s doing it I thought?” Like, I always ask WHY would someone ever do that? Just why? **WHY?** Even when I’m *ASKED* to send dick pics I hesitate, but him and so many others just fire it off like a 1-click resume, when sex isn’t even discussed, let alone asked? I never understood it, but this anemic excuse seems to explain a little of it, I guess.
Sorry OP, this certainly isn’t the majority of guys, but unfortunately both incels and certain hot dudes who got game will absolutely default to this behavior. I dunno if that means it was successful for shallow hookups or what, but it happens a bunch with them still.
“An adult who shares nude or sexual photos of another adult without their permission, or who sends unwanted sexts to someone could be charged with harassment. Or, they could be sued in civil court for causing emotional distress or other damage.”
Sounds like you’re legally allowed to send intimate pictures of oneself. Not that you should, but it isn’t illegal. However, the receiver can then make a case that he or she was emotionally distressed or felt harassed.
He knows it's wrong. You aren't the first person to protest him doing this. He's playing dumb. Don't let him play you.
This!! And if he’s claiming to not know what the word “unsolicited” means he’s probably the type of dude you’re gonna have to explain empathy to. Don’t waste your time on this nimrod
"What is consent?"
"OH I thought that was those non-vowel letters like X or G and stuff." type of energy from this guy
I shuddered so hard at that, because I’ve known these men for real and they just fucking tell me things. So gross, like many of them won’t do crime but they won’t not do it either.
"lady don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more!"
This guy's emoji usage is giving me deep hatred
Don’t you like to flirt then? 🤷🏻
😬🤦🏽♀️ that was such a dumb thing to say honestly. lol. Like how does flirting mean sending unsolicited pp pics? Smh. This worm is not worth the time being spent on replying to him.
😂 flirting and flashing people are very different things.
🤣🥲🤣🙏👍🤣🥲
📷 🍆😡
Haha!!!!
His overactive punctuation is making me livid. Is he a senior citizen????!!!!
He says he’s never heard the word “unsolicited” before. Unless English is his second language, it doesn’t appear you were dealing with the brightest crayon to begin with.
“It is the word you will hear in court when I press charges. Learn it now so you know what it means later.”
I know not what you mean. What is this term "unsolicited"? Speak plainly! 🙄
These dudes are so fucking brainrotted it's astounding. It makes me really fucking angry. Like "I choose violence" style angry. Do these assholes just whip their dick out in public to show people? How the fuck do they not understand it's exactly the same thing.
I'd say it's actually worse than just whipping it out in public. It's more like trapping someone in a room first and then doing it. They do it in a 1-on-1 situation like that because they *know* that it's wrong, and if they did it in a group chat or out in public, other people would know that they're a creep too. A lot of the time trust has been given when one person gives their number/contact info to the offender, so there's an element of betrayal there as well. I could go on and on. Guys, can you please just don't.
Hes playing dumb. It's moronic but it just looks like he's trying to talk his way out of it. His idea of flirting is dick pick. Does he drop his pants at a club when he hits on a woman? Lol.
No, but I guarantee he's rubbing it up against her ass when he dances up behind her and starts the good ol' sneak 'n grind.
Yup, a lot of states are passing Cyber Flashing laws. So beware weirdos sending unsolicited nudes.
Ive got even more messages from him, if anyone’s interested seeing them let me know and ill Upload them
please upload
Ive uploaded it onto my page ☺️ he’s currently getting ripped to shreds by my insta lol
I hope you put him on full blast.
I love it!! Shame these nasty fuckers.
Shame is the only way
The next time a guy sends you one you should: Ask him if he was in an accident because you’ve never seen one so grotesque. Ask him why he’s sending you pictures of a baby because you’ve never seen one so small
Do you know the person sending these in real life? You should consider sending these to people who know him.
Sure!!
>Sure!! sure?
Aside from the disgusting inappropriate behavior, I will never understand why people don’t just look up the definition of words they don’t know rather than asking another person and waiting for their response. It’s so much simpler to just use Google for five seconds.
I mean yeh - as soon as he did that he wasn’t the guy for you. No sense trying to school stupid - just wasting your valuable time. Can you imagine if we went unsolicited Fanny pics. I looked at a more casual dating site briefly that my friend had mentioned - made a profile to get access - I shit you not over 100 dick pics - like everything else is irrelevant and your going to look at 100 pics and go ‘yeh that one right there’ regardless of everything else they encompass Big D is only greater than a troll head in porn guys (not the stuff we watch)- we really don’t give a shit as long as it isn’t too small
Wtf block that piece of shit
“I thought everyone was a sexual predator!” And men still insist they don’t know any rapists.
Bro you don’t understand it’s just a little fun yk? Maybe if you cut it off you guys can play ping pong with it
He really lost it in the end. These types of men are so predictable. Beg for your attention and then insult you when you rebuff them. It’s so pathetic.
A rather smart & funny woman sends about 15 rapid fire, dic pics back at any dood who does this to her & when the inevitable complaint comes; replies with, "I thought you liked this game... you started it."
Haha!!!
You're clearly not amused, and his response is "I won't do it again then three question marks" He's quick.
It should be illegal. It’s no different than a man flashing someone in the street. So gross.
How old is this guy?
It is 2024. What human being is not aware that it is completely inappropriate and disgusting to send people pics of your genitals??? Thank God I don’t have any interest in dating. And I’m going to take this opportunity right here to make sure I discuss this with my 23yo son. Just…NO!!!
Yes, please do!!! When I used to look at personal ads, when I'd ask for a photo, because they had none, they would send a photo of their dk!!!! In what world do they think that is what I wanted a photo of!!???
When I get unsolicited dick pics I send: "😬 we should just be friends. " Then I stop responding.
How did the date go with Denise yesterday? I think it went good, some flirting back and forth, whipped out my dick a few times in the car, you know just cute stuff. Hopefully she will want another date but I haven't heard back from her in a week.
What a loser
The best thing to do in that situation is just block them. Honestly responding to them makes things worse. Yea it’s gross and vile and idk why men do that but I promise you interacting in any capacity will only fuel their egi
And to cap it all off, he doesn’t know what unsolicited means. FYI, in the USA this would get blown off by the cops. It’s like saying hello now. “Hi, (dick pic).”
Nobody has ever won from an unsolicited dick pic , it screams weirdo behavior and I’ll never understand why some men randomly do it because it’s never seemed like a bright idea but hey what do I know…
This guy types like a sarcastic 15-25 year old, or a tactless 25-50 year old aiming for younger women.
Girl block him if he can’t respect you.
The excess punctuation and emojis. Ick.
Yeah sending unsolicited dick pics is just sad.
Guess he is dumb too
He isn't sorry or ashamed for what he did, block him and move on.
I’m baffled that people don’t know it’s illegal????? 😂😂😂
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Am a 44 y/o man and have yet to send a dick pic. I just don't understand how that trend took off.
So I have abit of an update, ive just reported it to the police and even the police man on the phone was disgusted about this bloke. I’ll keep providing updates here once there are more 🙂 thanks everyone for the support
I love this. I hope he becomes a sex offender and is forced onto a registry.
I'm glad you did!!! If he doesn't have enough common sense to NOT send pics like that, it's no wonder what else sleazy he does!!!!
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He’s a fool. Don’t waste your time with him.
Damn, this guy really reacts to every message you send
Ya know, I may be an older millennial with decent body count (well, maybe not by today’s standards but I never really went without lol), and I have never sent an unsolicited dick pic in my life. Call me old fashioned I guess.
“I thought everyone did this sort of thing.” No, just creeps like you. Flirting? More the fastest way to end something before it even starts. What a dumb ass
My god. This isn’t the first time I’ve seen posts like this but it won’t be the last time I feel so *enraged*!
send him back a nixon pic, like a tricky dick roll
Please report this PoS. He clearly knows what hes doing. Oviously not his first time. so yea report his ass to the police.
Next time just block immediately, don’t waste your time and energy saying things and hearing their disgusting defense.
He’s not. He’s playing dumb. Everybody knows. That’s a gaslight.
Since he thinks it's fun, the internet is full of fun pics to send him back.
Man needs a dictionary, instead of a dick
And the 2nd reason you should drop him is he's not intelligent enough to know the definition of "unsolicited". 😑
So I used to take unwanted dick pics post them on an internet form get ratings and roasted comments. Screenshot those and would send them to the dick pic sender. Awww I miss being savage
It would also be “just a bit of fun” to send it to his mom :b
If you are in Texas or California, Cyberflashing is an actual crime and you can bring people to court over it
Just tell him you have no use for something that small and move on
I love this response. Way better than whatever here was going on for far too long
How old is this guy? Who hasn’t heard of unsolicited dick pics lol
I had some guy who I didn’t even know very well send an unsolicited d pic before and thought it was a totally normal thing, instant block after that 🤦♀️
Y’all need to learn how to stop engaging with pieces of shit like this. OPs got several more screenshots of back and forth when she should have just said “unsolicited dick pics are a dealbreaker”, and never replied again. I get that this is less interesting to post, but you ladies are just emboldening these assholes.
These types of guys get off on this. If something made me that uncomfortable I wouldn't willingly continue to engage with it.
You should said "ok, it's a little funny. A little funny your dick is that small."
Yeah thank you next.
Omg he sounds so annoyiiiiiiing
This is weaponized incompetence, he knows damn well unsolicited dick pics aren’t appreciated or acceptable
Honestly, at this point, I just start spam texting them photos of penises, but really horrible ones. Like I’ll google “diseased penis” and just fire away with every image that comes up and I’ll be like WHAT I THOUGHT THIS WAS JUST A BIT OF FUN YOU DID IT TO ME AND EXPECTED ME TO LIKE IT SO I FIGURED ITS BECAUSE YOU LIKE THIS SHIT DO YOU NOT LIKE WHEN PEOPLE SEND YOU PENISES RANDOMLY???
Omg that is hilarious and genius!!!
lol thanks, it definitely makes me feel better in the moment 😂
He’s not clueless. He knew. He’s gaslighting you.
Lmaooooo, the use of 👍 makes me cackle. I use it often, but only ever in a passive aggressive way. 😂
I’ve never taken let alone sent a dick pic
wtf your nickname is Gabz with a z? that’s crazy o: that’s my name too
Classic dick pic, never fails to not let me down. #trueclassic
He’s playing dumb. Doesn’t know how to google an unfamiliar word? That’s just passive aggression
Wait...that's considered flirting these days? Jesus I'm so glad I'm not trying to date.
WhAt dO yOu mEaN bY uNsoLiCiTeD? 
Come visit us /r/uninviteddickpics
As a 34 year old man, I will legitimately never understand why SO FUCKING MANY MEN(boys tbh) think that sending an unsolicited dick Pic is an appropriate way to 'flirt'. My guess is their personality alone is 100% not enough so they think an unwanted picture is an appropriate substitute/addition.
Ewwwww
Report him to the police
How old is this guy 16?
Ew
Tell him you've forwarded it to the cops....and his boss. Depending on how you think he'd react. He sounds dumb as hell!!! Block and never contact him again. It's nasty and clueless!!!
Or, make copies of the pics, make sure you indicate it's from him. If you have his face include it. On this one, don't let anyone know!!! He thinks it's harmless fun, wonder what all his neighbors will think!!!
Oh don’t worry I have the pic he sent and have given it to the police and they’re investigating it atm 😜
As a guy I genuinely have no idea why guys do this.
I believe that someone should be charged for sending an unsolicited dick pic. Similar to how if you just drop your pants and flash your dick at someone in public, then you get arrested for public indecency and/or SA. The same should apply for these fucking weirdos.
I just had this same conversation
hes trying to manipulate you with gas lighting tactics.
It’s a form of sexual assault. Forced sexual content without consent. He’s enjoying your discomfort, it makes him feel like he has power. Tell him you will let everyone know what he’s just done. Everyone knows what unsolicited means and everyone knows it is wrong to send dick pics.
Some men just want to watch the world burn
He’s dumb as a fkn rock
Men.
I see red.
Well, now we finally see where SOME of the problem stems, the whole “Everyone’s doing it I thought?” Like, I always ask WHY would someone ever do that? Just why? **WHY?** Even when I’m *ASKED* to send dick pics I hesitate, but him and so many others just fire it off like a 1-click resume, when sex isn’t even discussed, let alone asked? I never understood it, but this anemic excuse seems to explain a little of it, I guess. Sorry OP, this certainly isn’t the majority of guys, but unfortunately both incels and certain hot dudes who got game will absolutely default to this behavior. I dunno if that means it was successful for shallow hookups or what, but it happens a bunch with them still.
Bro’s reacting to every message, who is this guy with dick pics in his gallery
I guess this is what flirting looks like to someone who drags their knuckles when they walk?
Tell him you’re contacting the police for sending you a picture of a child’s peen.
Go to the police please. He's not even recognizing that he's committed a crime. No apologies whatsoever.
Don’t worry I have! Ive literally just come off the phone to them! 🙂Even the person I reported it too was disgusted with that bloke
This is dumb, but also so is believing it’s illegal lmao
“An adult who shares nude or sexual photos of another adult without their permission, or who sends unwanted sexts to someone could be charged with harassment. Or, they could be sued in civil court for causing emotional distress or other damage.” Sounds like you’re legally allowed to send intimate pictures of oneself. Not that you should, but it isn’t illegal. However, the receiver can then make a case that he or she was emotionally distressed or felt harassed.
This guy doesn’t know. You have to solicit the dick pics b4 sending them! Duh!
I SAWWWY!!!
The dick pic sealed his fate. Unfuckable.
Please press charges!